“When you’re in something you got to give it everything you have or else what are you doing?” – How Do You Know

“You have to know your own heart and after that you have to risk breaking it.” -Wildfire

“Wounds heal faster if you don’t risk constantly reopening them.”

“Three months ago, if you asked me, I would have told you that if you really loved someone, you’d let them go. But now I look at you, and I dream about her, and I see that I’ve been wrong. If you really love someone, I think you have to take them back.” -Mercy by Jodi Picoult

“You’ll eventually move on and find someone else. The tears will soon dry up and the memories fade, but they will always be there as a permanent reminder that you too once fell.”

“Don’t let hard times make you a hard person.”-Proud Family

“Write it on your heart that each day is the best day of the year.” – Emerson

“If you’re waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today? For if tomorrow never comes, you’ll surely regret this day.”

“You’ve failed many times although you don’t remember. You fell down the first time you tried to walk. You almost drowned the first time you tried to swim. Don’t worry about failure. Worry about the chances you miss when you don’t even try.”

“Just find what you love to do and… do it.” – Dawson’s Creek

“Okay. The best way to get over an it-doesn’t-matter guy is to find a new one. Preferably one who looks good bare chested in red suspenders.” – Beauty and the Beast

“Olivia: My gut tells me she’s in this. She’s in this with you. If it doesn’t work, it doesn’t work, but you have to try. Because if you try, if you leap, and you try, and it doesn’t work, it’s not on you.” – Scandal

“Abby: Don’t talk to me about tough calls or names on the door…When Charles fractured three of my ribs and broke my jaw and threw me out into the snow in my nightgown, Olivia Pope took a tire iron and broke his knee cap and got me the best divorce attorney in the state and got me out of that marriage. It’s what Olivia does. It’s who you are. You are the gladiator. I would gladly follow you over a cliff, but you’ve gotta show up. You gotta be a warrior. You don’t get to pick and choose when the real Olivia Pope walks through that door.” – Scandal

“Divorce the past to marry the present and be blessed with a lovely child of future.” –  Anuj Somany

“As friends, as human beings, we all try to do the best we can. but the world is full of unexpected twists and turns, and, just when you’ve gotten the lay of the land, the ground underneath you shifts and knocks you off your feet. if you’re lucky, you end up with nothing more than a flesh wound– something a band-aid will cover. but, some wounds are deeper than they first appear and require more than just a quick fix. with some wounds, you have to rip off the band aid, let them breathe, and give them time, to heal.” -Grey’s Anatomy

“I don’t know if I continue, even today, always liking myself, but what I learned to do many years ago was to forgive myself; it is very important for every human being able to forgive himself or herself, because if you live, you will make mistakes. it is inevitable. but once you do, and you see the mistake, then you forgive yourself and say, ‘well if I’d known better I’d have done better,’ that’s all, so you say to people who you think you may have injured, ‘I’m sorry,’ and then you say to yourself, ‘I’m sorry.’ if we all hold on to the mistake, we can’t see our own glory in the mirror because we have the mistake between our faces and the mirror. we can’t see what were capable of being. you can ask forgiveness of others but in the end the real forgiveness is in ones own self. I think that young men and woman are so caught by the way they see themselves, now mind you, when a larger society sees them as unattractive, as threats, as too black or too white, or too poor or too fat or too thin, or too sexual or too asexual, that’s rough, but you can overcome that, the real difficulty is to overcome how you think about yourself, if we don’t have that we never grow, we never learn, and sure as hell we could never teach.”

“Who gets to determine when the old ends and the new begins? It’s not on the calendar, it’s not a birthday, it’s not a new year, it’s an event –big or small, something that changes us, ideally it gives us hope, a new way of living and looking at the world, letting go of old habits, old memories. What’s important is that we never stop believing we can have a new beginning, but it’s also important to remember amid all the crap are a few things really worth holding on to.” – Grey’s Anatomy

“Never put everything into one person, because when they leave, then you have nothing.”

“You gotta grow up. You can’t keep having all these adolescent views on how great your life will be.” – Sleepless In Seattle

“Accept the things to which fate binds you and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart.” -Marcus Aurelius

“loving someone’s gonna hurt, and the sooner you let yourself feel that, the sooner you’ll be able to love again.” – Dawson’s Creek

“Just remember, though, that any reasons you come up with are ultimately irrelevant. The harsh reality is that even if you have EVERYTHING else in common, the one thing you don’t have in common is the belief that this relationship can work, and that alone trumps your shared love of puppies, The Dave Matthews Band, and Mexican food.” – It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken by Greg Behrendt and Amira Ruotola-Behrendt

“I think all of us want to feel something that we have forgotten or turned our backs on, because maybe we didn’t realize how much we were leaving behind. We need to remember what used to be good. If we don’t, we wont recognize it even if it hits you between the eyes.” – 13 going on 30

“Don’t you know by now?  You can’t turn back, because this road is all you’ll ever have.” – Paramore, “Fences”

“If you want a different ending, don’t make the same mistakes.”

“But there is suffering in life, and there are defeats. No one can avoid them. But it’s better to lose some of the battles in the struggles for your dreams than to be defeated without ever knowing what you’re fighting for.” – Paulo Coelho

“There comes a time in your life when you must decide between what you feel and what you know. You must choose between your heart and your mind, between love and the truth. Sometimes, the love you feel will hide the truth from your mind; but seldom from your soul. The bond between your heart and your mind is the strongest and one will try and overpower the other at all times. But neither one, alone, or together, can overpower your soul, for they do not possess the ability, nor the strength. Only your soul can guide you, and when the time does come for you to make a decision, you must be prepared for an inner conflict between your heart and you mind, so painful it can only be overcome by the strength your soul can provide. This is when you must force yourself to realize that your heart and your mind are the only links to your soul; they are controlled by your soul, and can act as one when you allow your soul to guide you.”

“So trust me when I say if a guy is treating you like he doesn’t give a shit, he genuinely doesn’t give a shit. No exceptions.” – He’s Just Not That Into You

“You can fill a lifetime with if-onlys.. or you can get on with it.” – Summer Sisters by Judy Blume

“Take chances, take a lot of them. Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom, it always ends up just the way it should be. Your mistakes make you who you are. You learn and grow with each choice you make. Everything is worth it. Say how you feel always. Be you, and be okay with it.”