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"So hold her closer when she cries, hold her closer when she feels she needs a hand to hold, someone who'll never let her go again. And hold him closer when he tries to hold the tears back from his eyes. Don't say goodbye. Don't say goodbye." - Blessid Union of Souls

"sometimes you gotta stop and remember that you're not gonna live forever. be young, think smart, stay true, and just follow your heart." - The Ataris, "Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, B, A, Start"

"Don't let a heart steal what you are, be careful who you love and be careful who they are."

"Tell him yes. Even if you are dying of fear, even if you are sorry later, but whatever you do, you will be sorry all the rest of your life if you say no." - Love in the Time of Cholera

"People keep telling me that maybe it'd be better if we got back together. Maybe it would be. I know I would be so happy if we did. But my endings never end happy anymore. Because in my life, there's no such thing as forever, and there's no such thing as love, or happily-ever-after. There's attraction and there's stirred emotion, but no true love, and no forever. Perhaps he did love me, and maybe everything he said, he really meant. But however it all goes down, it all comes down to the fact that 'forever' doesn't exist. And true love it actually works in the reverse. you must first be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order to have what you want." - Margaret Young

"Star light, star bright: don't give up without a fight! For in the quest for Mr. Right, you'll find a couple Mr. Lefts, with gorgeous smiles and sparkling gifts, with silver tongues and pleasant ways -- they'll mystify and draw your gaze. So in you quest for shining knight, protect your heart and guard it tight, look to the stars with eyes closed tight, before you know, there's Mr. Right!"

"Do what your heart tells you to, and never regret anything that happens. Be the kind of person who makes love because you are in it."

"And when she finally forgets you, don't you dare remember her."

"Revenge sex is not the answer. If you're letting her go, let her go. Be an adult." - Grey's Anatomy

"If you want him to fall head over heels, give him something to trip over."

"Sometimes you need to give fate a hand."

"One shouldn't be too hard on oneself when the object of one's affection returns the favor with rather less enthusiasm than one might have hoped." - The Object of My Affection

"If you're scared, but you love him, all it comes down to is how much you are willing to risk and give for this guy and this relationship. Is he worth it to you?"

"Well if this turns into an 'either or', you pick the person you love, end of story. Look, all of this means nothing if you're alone." - Grey's Anatomy

"If you think you've found that one that you really love...make sure they love you back." - The Ataris, "choices"

"If things work out right -- he'll come to you in the end. But if he happens to slip and fall away, don't catch him. Then he'll realize he made the mistake and it was truly his loss."

"It's not about the perfect setting. It's not about the perfect timing. It's about the perfect person. Nothing else matters. " - Dawson's Creek

"Oh, innocent victims of Cupid, remember this terse little verse: To let a fool kiss you is stupid. To let a kiss fool you is worse." - E. Y. Harburg

"It's best to wait for the one you want then to settle for the one available. Best to wait for the one you love than settle for the one who's around. Best to wait for the right one because life is too short to be wasted on the wrong person."

"I guess, if anything, it's about taking chances, even when you think you're all out of chances. It's about giving forgiveness and unconditional love, even when it seems like you should only do the opposite. It's about trusting that God puts people in your life at certain times so that you can capitalize on the opportunity. It's all about the possibility. It's all about what you do with those possibilities. Life is short, but it moves so fast. Hang on and enjoy the ride. And when someone comes along with whom you enjoy spending the ride with ... hold on tight." -Samantha Mott