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"It's like you think you're safe or something, cause you can just walk away, anytime because you don't need him. You don't need anyone. But the thing you don't realize is, you're wrong." - My So-Called Life

"Blindfold your eyes and let your heart walk you home...if you end up on another doorstep, then your heart is trying to tell you something."

"How can you expect him to totally trust you when you don't totally trust him? You have to start to learn to trust sometime or another. Why don't you start now? He won't hurt you, I believe that, but because of everything that happened, you won't let yourself believe it. And he needs to see that you believe in him and are willing to trust him before he can totally trust you. It's a confidence thing."

"Keep in your heart that there is a man who would give his life to keep you beside him." - Sydney Carton

"Just forget what you cannot replace." - Bright Eyes, "racing towards the new"

"Don't risk anything you aren't willing to lose." -Boy Meets World

"If things work out right, he'll come to you in the end. But if he happens to slip and fall away, don't catch him. Then he'll realize he made the mistake, and it was truly his loss."

"Stop talking about love. Every asshole in the world says he loves somebody. It means nothing. It still doesn't mean anything. What you feel only matters to you. It's what you do to the people you say you love, that's what matters. It's the only thing that counts." - the last kiss

"When he messes up and apologizes, accept his apology. When you can see the tears he is holding back, forgive him. When it is apparent that any pain you feel he feels ten times worse, realize he loves you. When he has hurt you and is there to put you back together, let him help." - Beckie

"My point is, there are a lot of people in the world. No one ever sees everything the same way you do; it just doesn't happen. So when you find one person who gets a couple of things, especially if they're important ones... you might as well hold on to them."

"You can accept his excuses all you want, but you have to ask yourself, is this the relationship you want to be in? He may be into you, he may not, but the only thing you have to answer is, is this how you want to feel, perhaps forever?" - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"If I could give everyone one piece of love advice, it would be once you find the one you've spent your whole lifetime searching for, don't give them up without a fight. Never let them just walk right out of your life. Whatever you do, don't ever let them go. Hold onto them with all that you've got, because you have no guarantee that they'll be back. So, don't make the mistake that I have made. Don't just watch them leave. It could be the last time you ever see them. Don't look back on it and regret not saying the words you needed to say, or doing the things you needed to do. Because the feeling of regret will never leave you."

"Do you ever put your arms up and spin really fast? That's what love is like. It makes your heart race and turn's the world upside down. But if you're not careful, if you don't keep your eyes on something still, you can lose your balance, you can't see what's happening to the people around you. You can't see that you're about to fall." - Practical Magic

"There are things you would love to hear but you will never hear it from the person from whom you would like to hear it, but don't be deaf to hear it from the person who says it with heart."

"Look at her -- she's a freakin' goddess. How long do you think it's gonna be before some guy, somewhere, notices that and gets interested in her? And what are you gonna do then, my friend?" - Dawson's Creek

"If we want you , we will find you. If you don't think you gave him enough time to notice you, take the time it took you to notice him and divide it by half." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"be wary of men who love too much too soon for no reason." - It's My F---ing Birthday by Merrill Markoe

"If there's anything you should do before you die, allow me to suggest something: look into someone's eyes, someone who you really care about. Really look at them, just look at their face, their eyes; take them in. Breathe their breath into your lungs at a moment when they're the most happy....and I promise you, I swear, you'll never see anything more beautiful than the expression on their face....or the one on yours."

"Put yourself in her position. All she needs is recognition. Take her and make sure she feels it. Let her know you'll never let her go." - Faber Drive, "Sleepless Nights (Never Let Her Go)"

"If you've got a one in a million guy don't let him get away, cause the next one in a million guy is a million guys away."