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"Do you know what kind of miracle it is that Derek is who he is? Do you know how rare it is that someone like him even exists? He's still an optimist. He still believes in true love and magic and soul mates. He's waiting for you, and if you don't come back from this ... you will change who he is." - Grey's Anatomy

"Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours."

"Forget his name. Forget his face. Forget his kiss and warm embrace. Forget his words that once were true. Remember when he lied to you. Forget the talks that you once shared. Forget the face that he once cared. Forget the times you shared together. Remember now, he's gone forever. Forget you cared the whole night long. Forget him when you hear his song. Forget how close you used to be. Remember now that he is free. Forget the way he used to look. Forget the way he used to talk. Forget the things you planned to do. Forget the thrill when he said, 'Hi.' Forget the way he made you cry. Forget the way he said your name. Remember now, things aren't the same. Forget the times he made you mad. Remember now, he's happy, not sad. Forget the times you were alone. Forget the long nights on the phone. Forget his gentle, easy way. Forget you saw him yesterday. Forget the times that he cared, too. Remember you'll eventually find someone new. Forget he said, 'I'll leave you never.' Remember now, he's gone forever."

"also, you can remember, that no man, not Derek, not Mark, defines who you are." - Grey's Anatomy

"You're coming off a traumatic, life altering relationship. The last thing you need is to get emotionally involved again." - Dawson's Creek

"'lost love is still love, Eddie. it takes a different form that's all. you can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. but when those senses weaken, another heightens. memory. memory becomes your partner. you nurture it. you hold it. you dance with it.'" - The Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom

"You already have one asshole. You don't need another." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"People tell you who they are all the time. When a man says he can't be monogamous, you should believe him." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"When you find someone you really love. Never let them go, not for anything. Because when they are gone, you realize how much they REALLY meant to you. And by then, it just might be too late to get them back."

"We're taught that in life, we should try to look on the bright side, to be optimistic. Not in this case. In this case, look on the dark side. Assume rejection first. Assume you're the rule, not the exception." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"One of these days you're gonna have to take a gigantic fact check, my friend, all right? She didn't mistake you or anybody, okay? This girl is head-in-the-clouds, 100% ass-backwards in love with you, all right?" - Dawson's Creek

"Basic rule number one: never rely on the guy." - 90210

"When I was a kid, most of the advice that my dad gave me was crap. But there's one thing that he said that was pure genius... he said, if you're ever with a girl that's too good for you, marry her." - Valentine's Day

"Liars and players: I know you think your girlfriend sits by the phone, waiting for your call that never comes. Baby, let me let you in on a secret: Your girl isn't or wasn't clueless. And you thought wrong."

"Go count the hours he's made you happy...then go count the day's he's made you suffer."

"At the end of the day, it's about whether YOU like yourself enough to face the reality that your romance wasn't working.. to recognize that it wasn't giving you what you needed and deserved." - It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken by Greg Behrendt and Amira Ruotola-Behrendt

"You can love someone with all your heart for all the right reasons, and in a moment they can choose to walk away. love 'em anyway." - Martina McBride, "anyway"

"I like guys a lot, but I'm not going to waste my time with some guy that doesn't see things the way I do... I mean do you really need this guy?" - Object of my Affection

"I think relationships can be defined by big moments that don't happen - or by the little ones that do. But once you get past the drama, it's actually pretty simple: All you have to do is whatever it takes to make her happy." - Scrubs

"Hold onto love ....or it might let you go. Take not your faith for granted, it must be practiced to remain worthwhile. So, too, with love. In loving someone, you cannot admit it often enough."