Greg Behrendt Archive

"Cheating gets easier every time it's done. It's only hard the first time, when one feels the sting of morality and the guilt of betraying someone's trust." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"Don't be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You're deeply missable. However, he's still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he's choosing, every day, not to be with you." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"If he's sleeping with someone else without your knowledge or encouragement, he is not only behaving like a man who's just not that into you, he's behaving like a man who doesn't even like you all that much." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"Don't ask yourself what you did wrong or how you could have done it differently. Don't waste your valuable heart and mind trying to figure out why he did what he did. Or thinking back on all the things he said, and wondering what was the truth and what was the lie. The only thing you need to know is that it's really good news: He's gone." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"He's just not that into you if he's having sex with someone else. There's never going to be a good excuse for cheating." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"Deciding to get back together with someone is a complicated and difficult decision. Just remember that the person you are getting back together with is the same person who, not long before, looked you in your beautiful face, took full stock of you and all your qualities, and told you that he was no longer in need of your company." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"Sure, in the beginning you have to be somewhat cautious about how much you give away. But that caution shouldn't be to make them feel more comfortable; it should be because you know that you are ultimately a delicate, valuable creature who should be areful and discerning about who gets your affection." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"There's a guy out there who's going to be really happy that you didn't get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"'Doesn't want to get married' and 'Doesn't want to get married to me' are very different things. Be sure about which category he falls under." - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

"Yes, breakups are painful, even from someone you may have only dated a few times. You may have been really excited about him and had a lot of hopes for the future. But how empowering to have the mental clarity to say, 'He just wasn't that into me.' Can you imagine that girl in the future? Nothing will be able to stop her!" - He's just not that into you by by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo