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"My grief is so old it's a habit. It is so much a part of me that I'm afraid to give it up." - Ask Again Later by Jill A. Davis

"somewhere in the not so dark recesses of my mind, I believed that the excitement surrounding the avoidance could never really live up to itself if a, um, let's call it a situation, ever occurred between us. we'd watered it all down with anticipation. robbed ourselves of whatever the prize was supposed to be." - Girls' Poker Night by Jill A. Davis

"'I'm not sure I should make this easy for you.'" - Ask Again Later by Jill A. Davis

"When reality hits it always hurts." - Ask Again Later by Jill A. Davis

"'look, at this point, there's no reason for us to see each other anymore, okay? I mean, there's no real point, is there? so let's just stop it now, okay?'" Girls' Poker Night by Jill A. Davis

"It was unusual for me to be the afterthought." - Ask Again Later by Jill A. Davis

"I got really good at missing opportunities." - Ask Again Later by Jill A. Davis

"I'm sad that this is the kind of person I am. I am a person who will stay in a relationship for three years because I know that this relationship will never hurt me. I will park my love here because here I will never experience great joy, but more important, I will never be devastated. the dissolving of this won't be painful at all. it will just be a formality. a formal ending to something that barely or never existed." - Girls' Poker Night by Jill A. Davis

"but it doesn't even have anything to do with him. it's easier this way, because when he fails all the tests, i won't be disappointed, because they were set up in a way to ensure that he would fail. and, in turn, i would not be disappointed by the outcome." - Girls' Poker Night by Jill A. Davis

"How often do you get a second chance? Every day. How often do you take the second chance? Almost never. "- Ask Again Later by Jill A. Davis

"I do love the unexpected details I'm gleaning. I can't collect enough of them." - Ask Again Later by Jill A. Davis

"Hiding is what I'm all about. He wants to strip that away. I hate it that I can't have a crisis that isn't accompanied by a sales pitch for more sessions. But I'm simultaneously flattered that my situation is so dire that he wants to see me more often." - Ask Again Later by Jill A. Davis

"when I'm really serious about making this love thing work, I start bargaining. maybe we all do. I gather up my vices -- sugar, buying houseplants and then never watering them, cynicism -- and promise to abstain from all three in exchange for a new, more optimistic prospective. a life that works." - Girls' Poker Night by Jill A. Davis

"i think it's completely wonderful that he sees my flaws so easily and has no problem hammering on and on about them." - Girls' Poker Night by Jill A. Davis

"it's all about might. it might hurt. it might not work. it might be awful. i never think it might work. it might be good. it might be fun." - Girls' Poker Night by Jill A. Davis

"But it's still hard to get excited about good-bad news. I need to work on that, I guess." - Ask Again Later by Jill A. Davis

"Sometimes I panic because I realize I haven't measured every scenario I will encounter." - Ask Again Later by Jill A. Davis

"I'm stronger than I would have guessed." - Ask Again Later by Jill A. Davis

"In repeated trials I get the same result. The study reveals that he is consistent, and that I am troubled." - Ask Again Later by Jill A. Davis

"there was no difficult period of forgetting him or getting over him. which made me wonder if i had ever loved him, or anyone else." - Girls' Poker Night by Jill A. Davis