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“The good thing Katie, is that life is full of second chances.” – Safe Haven

Let me tell you, I know you don’t want to listen to your father, I didn’t listen to mine, and I am telling you you gotta pay attention this time. When life reaches out at a moment like this it’s a sin if you don’t reach back, I’m telling you it’s a sin if you [...]

"You can't live your life for other people. You've got to do what's right for you, even if it hurts some people you love." - Nicholas Sparks, 'The Notebook'

"You have to know your own heart and after that you have to risk breaking it." -Wildfire

"wounds heal faster if you don't risk constantly reopening them."

"Three months ago, if you asked me, I would have told you that if you really loved someone, you'd let them go. But now I look at you, and I dream about her, and I see that I've been wrong. If you really love someone, I think you have to take them back." -Mercy by Jodi Picoult

"You'll eventually move on and find someone else. The tears will soon dry up and the memories fade, but they will always be there as a permanent reminder that you too once fell."

“Okay. The best way to get over an it-doesn’t-matter guy is to find a new one. Preferably one who looks good bare chested in red suspenders.” – Beauty and the Beast

“Olivia: My gut tells me she’s in this. She’s in this with you. If it doesn’t work, it doesn’t work, but you have to try. Because if you try, if you leap, and you try, and it doesn’t work, it’s not on you.” – Scandal

“As friends, as human beings, we all try to do the best we can. but the world is full of unexpected twists and turns, and, just when you’ve gotten the lay of the land, the ground underneath you shifts and knocks you off your feet. if you’re lucky, you end up with nothing more than [...]

“I don’t know if I continue, even today, always liking myself, but what I learned to do many years ago was to forgive myself; it is very important for every human being able to forgive himself or herself, because if you live, you will make mistakes. it is inevitable. but once you do, and you [...]

“Who gets to determine when the old ends and the new begins? It’s not on the calendar, it’s not a birthday, it’s not a new year, it’s an event –big or small, something that changes us, ideally it gives us hope, a new way of living and looking at the world, letting go of old [...]

“Zoe may not be with Judson today, but there are a lot of other Judsons out there. Serious men with adult responsibilities who have the sense to tell the girl how they feel. But right now there is no one else. The only thing keeping you from being with Zoe Hart is you.” – Hart [...]

“Accept the things to which fate binds you and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart.” -Marcus Aurelius

"loving someone's gonna hurt, and the sooner you let yourself feel that, the sooner you'll be able to love again." - Dawson's Creek

"Just remember, though, that any reasons you come up with are ultimately irrelevant. The harsh reality is that even if you have EVERYTHING else in common, the one thing you don't have in common is the belief that this relationship can work, and that alone trumps your shared love of puppies, The Dave Matthews Band, and Mexican food." - It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken by Greg Behrendt and Amira Ruotola-Behrendt

“I think all of us want to feel something that we have forgotten or turned our backs on, because maybe we didn’t realize how much we were leaving behind. We need to remember what used to be good. If we don’t, we wont recognize it even if it hits you between the eyes.” – 13 [...]

"There comes a time in your life when you must decide between what you feel and what you know. You must choose between your heart and your mind, between love and the truth. Sometimes, the love you feel will hide the truth from your mind; but seldom from your soul. The bond between your heart and your mind is the strongest and one will try and overpower the other at all times. But neither one, alone, or together, can overpower your soul, for they do not possess the ability, nor the strength. Only your soul can guide you, and when the time does come for you to make a decision, you must be prepared for an inner conflict between your heart and you mind, so painful it can only be overcome by the strength your soul can provide. This is when you must force yourself to realize that your heart and your mind are the only links to your soul; they are controlled by your soul, and can act as one when you allow your soul to guide you."

"So trust me when I say if a guy is treating you like he doesn't give a shit, he genuinely doesn't give a shit. No exceptions." - He's Just Not That Into You

“Take chances, take a lot of them. Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom, it always ends up just the way it should be. Your mistakes make you who you are. You learn and grow with each choice you make. Everything is worth it. Say how you feel always. Be you, [...]